I have been together with my boyfriend for almost 2 yrs. Lately, he is addicted to pornography and kept surfing websites for sexy girls' pictures. He even did it in front of me. I think it is an insult for me. Lately, he even wanted to buy a fleshlight (a toy for masturbation) even though we had sex. Is this normal? He was not like tat when we were together in the beginning of the relationship. I'm disgusted.
Some of the other answers on here are terrible! Just because he looks at photos of other people doesn't mean he doesn't value you. There is not a (hetrosexual) man alive who doesn't look at photos of other girls or pornography. Anyone who says they don't is a liar. Seriously.
As for the girl who said your relationship's in trouble, she should try having one some time, then she might know what she's talking about. If you have different sex drives and he wants more than you do, it's perfectly normal for him to have a pull over some porn!
The fleshlight thing's a little creepy though.
Look on the bright side, at least he's involving you and not shutting you out to look at porn. Try and engage him and talk about it.
In my opinion, watching porn shouldn't have any effect on your self esteem or sexual confidence. He is showing it to you and doing it in front of you because to him it's not that you don't turn him on, it's just something new and exciting to enjoy together. I encourage you to watch some with him, try and act out the same scenes together while it's playing. So what if he bought a fleshlight, lube it up and help him out with it. Maybe take a trip to the fun zone and get a little something for yourself that he can use on you simultaneously. You are going to ruin this relationship by making irrational demands based on your insecurities. If any of the stuff i suggested isn't appealing to you at all, then I'd say let him go and move on with your life. You won't be able to change this part of him, nor should you want to.
See, their is a difference between occasionally looking at pornography when your wife's not around and being addicted to it, your husband is obviously addicted to porn, if he is wanting to buy a flesh light and constantly on the web searching for it he definitely needs help.
i think you should attend counseling together before he spirals out of control.
NOT NORMAL!!! he should respect you enough not to look at other women. You should step back and reevaluate your relationship.. talk to him and find out why he feels the need to do this.. and if there is something that can help change his habits. If nothing can be done leave him.
he shouldnt need/want other stimuli besides you, his gf. Theres a prob with this relationship. my bf had a calender with pornography and he got rid of it the second time i mentioned it, and he's a teen guy im so proud.
is he playing with himself? maybe he thinks other.. stuff is more important than you. THATS where he's dead wrong. i think you should talk to him. or, leave him. ask yourself... do you really love him? does he really love you? if not... try to work it out. do what feels best.
I don't think it seems normal. It's almost like he's cheating on you. It doesn't sound like he's a very honest guy. and by the way, you have a reason to be disguised. let him know how you feel about it.
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that's humiliating and very sad, also disrespectful, ask him why he is doing this because he is disrespecting you, all guys do watch porn all of them but doing it infront of your girlfriend is just crossing the line up to a mile!
Well a lot of guys do it, but it may mean hes getting bored in the relationship. I'd talk to him about it before he finds a real girl to be with.
Normal.
Guys have two categories of objectives in life.
A)Porn/Sex/Love - Making wife happy.
B)Food
all guys, single, married, etc, watch porn..
even if you have sex with him 24/7, he will make time to watch porn.
He's a guy and you can't blame him, unless your gonna' have sex with him 3 times a week.
Sounds like he is getting bored. Sorry. Maybe you should end this relationship before he does. Save your dignity.
You should be dump him.
Well, if you're having sex then BF/GF should have marriage rules apply. Meaning, porn should be a no.
Then why are you still with him? He's your boyfriend, not your husband.
Maybe you are not giving him what he wants
i just watch porn with my bf lol.... cuz we both like it... but if ur insulted tell him about it... i just rather have my bf look rather than touch
Drop him like a stone girlfreind!!! dont you stay with that dirtbag! He should NOT be doing that!
dump him hes a fa*
If you had a penis ...you would understand