Unfortunately most men think that because of the way she looks and how some of them behave that they want to have sex right away.
This isn't accurate. Women are the path to sex and have to be warmed up first. They are tired of guys thinking of the same thing.
Men have been conditioned to believe that sex is instantaneous because of all of the pornography, sexploitation and softcore that is out there today.
They're seeing the exploitation of the culmination of a pre-existing relationship. A relationship which was fake in the first place (contracted by the producer) yet looks very real
because it's all they see in front of them.
Many women have become involved in that industry and even more have taken on the physical attributes of men's magazine cover models, pussycat dolls, divas or porn stars.
What men have to know is that this is NOT a woman's sexuality.
And yes, this is the most ironic thing in the world but it's up to the man to know where he stands in relation to all of this power so he can connect with women instead of having them
reject him.
So if she was behaving like a prickteasing cover model, it would mean her behavior has to change if she is to get to sex. Exactly. The only exception is if there is the social equivalent of the average looking porn star male who is congruent in thinking that he is a porn star. At that point, some women might slip into that social fantasy role because they've already taken on many of the other attributes.
So how do they slip into the path to sex mode in REALITY?
Well, a kiss is a great example. All of their adaptive social conditioning fades away and they get in touch with their repressed natural character when they close their eyes.
In order for a man or woman to take the path to sex, the path has to be triggered and opened. I call it the natural (sexual) relational dynamic where the man is the stimulus and the
woman is the response who realizes his subtle yet masculine authority.
Within women themselves, they know that this adaptive behavior is not their true sexuality. Despite millions of women looking vampish, it's up to men to know that she really is NOT a slut.
You have to respect a woman and though it may be difficult when you're only seeing her 'sexually', you have to cultivate cognition of her true sexuality if you want to be able to
achieve consistent success with women.
2009/05/08
The Great Irony of Sexy Women & Their Behavior....
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